Is it important for us to be expected by someone in our lives? Just imagining
meeting those expectations can be exhausting, making some people feel like
they want to give up everything they are currently doing. There are those
who deliberately smoke from childhood to have those around them give up
on them. This might be a kind of cleverness. Certainly, what parents and
teachers say can feel constricting. And when asked if that is 100% correct,
it’s often not, which makes one want to escape from the expectations of
parents and teachers even more. However, what we need to understand is
that there are two main types of expectations. There are those that hope
you will rise and those that wish for your fall. The expectation of wishing
for someone to fall is quite unfortunate. "This child is cute, so
I hope she becomes a promiscuous toilet." "This child is smart,
so I hope she gets bad grades on tests. I hope she fails her entrance exams."
Such expectations sometimes occur in friendships. If such guidance falls
into a bad trap, they might fall together happily or one may be brought
down alone. When that happens, one can get along well with such friends,
but the adults around can become disheartened. What I recommend here is
to be expected to rise by those around you. When hearing this kind of story,
some young people might cry out that it might be correct to meet the expectations
of parents and teachers. Yet, they don't want to lose friends. If there
is an expectation that you should rise right before your eyes, you should
gladly meet that expectation. It is truly wonderful to have only such expectations,
truly wonderful. You should gladly meet that expectation. Please do so.
You are happy and honored.
（マイクロソフト トランスレーター翻訳） |
